Something about me that some have trouble comprehending in general.
I don't believe in love.
Sure, people like each other, tolerate each other, and then care for each other, in given time. A logical progression that creates an emotional tether.
And I understand the magic behind maternal and paternal affection for children, I mean, those cute little babes were genetically designed to be adorable so they could be dependent on others to survive. (Ingenious, really!)
It's all quite biological.
I'm just a skeptic about this strange figment that floats about in peoples' fantasies and dreams.
Love at first sight? Merely physical attraction.
So where this brings me: arranged marriage.
Of course, everyone has their own perspective on the case, and if you're not one of those that has ever experienced an arranged marriage, whether first-hand or by knowing someone who has, I'm afraid your validity to what I'm going to confirm will make you upset.
I am wholeheartedly agreeable to the notion. (Although, of course, if it involves non-consent from both parties, or involves young'ins who don't have a choice, I'd be very vocal at the inappropriateness!)
But, after numerous consultations with myself to discuss the non-existent chance I will "fall in love" (ouch!), the idea of finding myself a match that is beneficial is perfect.
You'll notice, if you've been paying attention to my writing, that I do dabble in love in various forms.
But I will make clear, this "love" is actually a perception of the character and the character's dreams and beliefs.
So to correct myself, love may be real, for those that believe in it. However in my case, I don't.
And life goes on, so my mother and I have decided to book a trip to Indonesia in the fall/winter to start a hunt (Ohh, how predatory.. :P) on men, of which I would choose.
And yes, I know, from countless accusations, I am taking this a bit too logical.
But again, characters and personalities dictate dreams and beliefs.
Oh! And relationships! They will forever be my muse. :D
I don't believe in love.
Sure, people like each other, tolerate each other, and then care for each other, in given time. A logical progression that creates an emotional tether.
And I understand the magic behind maternal and paternal affection for children, I mean, those cute little babes were genetically designed to be adorable so they could be dependent on others to survive. (Ingenious, really!)
It's all quite biological.
I'm just a skeptic about this strange figment that floats about in peoples' fantasies and dreams.
Love at first sight? Merely physical attraction.
So where this brings me: arranged marriage.
Of course, everyone has their own perspective on the case, and if you're not one of those that has ever experienced an arranged marriage, whether first-hand or by knowing someone who has, I'm afraid your validity to what I'm going to confirm will make you upset.
I am wholeheartedly agreeable to the notion. (Although, of course, if it involves non-consent from both parties, or involves young'ins who don't have a choice, I'd be very vocal at the inappropriateness!)
But, after numerous consultations with myself to discuss the non-existent chance I will "fall in love" (ouch!), the idea of finding myself a match that is beneficial is perfect.
You'll notice, if you've been paying attention to my writing, that I do dabble in love in various forms.
But I will make clear, this "love" is actually a perception of the character and the character's dreams and beliefs.
So to correct myself, love may be real, for those that believe in it. However in my case, I don't.
And life goes on, so my mother and I have decided to book a trip to Indonesia in the fall/winter to start a hunt (Ohh, how predatory.. :P) on men, of which I would choose.
And yes, I know, from countless accusations, I am taking this a bit too logical.
But again, characters and personalities dictate dreams and beliefs.
Oh! And relationships! They will forever be my muse. :D
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Just a rant I've shortened after being questioned while discussing my plans with some close friends. This is probably a large chunk of my personality that comes out in my writing, so I thought I'd share it.
Hopefully this is insightful. If not, don't be concerned.
I can't change what is already perceived, I suppose.
And again, personalities and characters. (I still adore them!)
Have an excellent day,
mera.
